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Filed Under (steve blom) by admin on 30-03-2010

“For women, balancing a career and family doesn’t have to be a high wire act – it just requires a bit of juggling,” says Laura Betterly, CEO of In Touch Media Group, Inc. (www.intouchmediagroup.com), a full-service marketing company that specializes in using the Internet as a public relations and advertising tool. “Prioritization, organization, and delegation are key to achieving the balance that allows a woman to enjoy a rich family life while also gaining fulfillment from her career.”

Betterly knows whereof she speaks. With a husband and two teenage boys, Betterly is among the 72 percent of mothers with children one year or older who are in the workforce. While acknowledging that her high-powered career allows her to take advantage of services that aren’t accessible to lower income mothers, Betterly maintains that every woman can develop the skills necessary to balance work and family.

“Prioritizing is the process of realizing that you can’t do it all, deciding what’s important, and not sweating the small stuff,” Betterly says. Although she likes to provide her family with home-cooked meals, Betterly would rather spend time with her sons than in front of the stove every night. “I go to a place called Get Cooking Now, where I can make twelve dishes in their kitchen all at once,” she says. “I bring them home, freeze them, and am able to give my family good, nutritious meals without a lot of preparation time or mess.”

Betterly also carves out more family time by being organized and streamlining other household tasks. “I do all of our personal banking and bill paying online, and use Quicken to track all of our expenditures and due dates,” she says. And, if you’re on Betterly’s gift list, you can count on the fact that what’s inside the box came from an online source. “I utilize the Internet for gift shopping, especially at holiday time,” she says. “I can find everything I’m looking for online, and I’d rather spend time with my husband and sons than traipse through shopping malls.”

Finally, Betterly is a firm believer in delegation. “Each member of the family has a list of jobs to do around the house, like taking out the garbage, washing the clothes, and doing the dishes,” she says. “By delegating chores, the boys have learned that their contributions are important to our family, and that we have more time for fun.”

And what does Betterly, her husband steve blom, and sons Craig and Chris do with their extra time? “We go to movies, concerts, visit friends, and barbecue,” she says. “Plus, I’m getting pretty good at play the Digital Dance Revolution video game with the boys.”

Betterly concludes, “As women, we don’t have to make a choice between work and family. With a few skills and some practice, we can juggle the two beautifully.”

Kris Nickerson
http://www.articlesbase.com/women’s-issues-articles/the-art-of-balancing-career-and-family-61729.html

Comments

Aida Renolds on 30 March, 2010 at 9:23 pm #

What do you think of Women balancing a Career and a family?
Can a woman really balance a full family life and a significant career?
Can it be done effectively, or are we fooling ourselves?

Please be honost respectful – I’d like to hear from Women and Men!

Thanks everyone!


Brigid MacDonnell on 31 March, 2010 at 2:25 am #

We have been fooling ourselves, and millions of children have suffered because of it.

But these days you can’t blame most mothers. If the United States were to go back to a one-income economy like it used to be before the 70’s, most of these exhausted and stressed-out women would gladly stay home.
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Jade Says on 31 March, 2010 at 2:27 am #

In todays economy you either balance it all or you remain childless. You do what you have to do. Very few women have the luxury to stay home and raise kids.
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alison on 31 March, 2010 at 2:29 am #

It’s true we can have it all–but not at the same time, not successfully at least.
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Hey There Slugger on 31 March, 2010 at 2:31 am #

Why don’t you ask can a man balance a carrer and a family?
and if they are together then it should be no problem. They both can work and take care of their kids, women shouldn’t be the only taking care of a family.
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GetOverIt on 31 March, 2010 at 2:33 am #

It’s possible. But only when the children are older and can take care of themselves(5th grade, maybe, I don’t know…). I don’t see how anyone can stay up with a newborn feeding them till 5 am and going to work a hour later just to repeat the next day.
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My brain?


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